Looking back on 2008 and planning for 2009

Well lets see 2008 was so stressful, crazy, and fun! I planned my wedding got married...helped Jennifer with her wedding and got her married...kept up the gym stuff til about October but im back on with it now...This year so far was the best of my life so many great things happened and i have never been happier or more in love than now...Christmas was GREAT! Tim got me a ultra chi flat iron, the jacket i wanted, and the robe from vicotoria secret ive been wanting forever! I got him some good gifts to so i think anyways...i hope he was happy with his he seemed to be ne ways...we have been married this month for 7 months, my how time flys! Still no kids in our future but im sure one day when the time is right we will decide on some or maybe we will stay with our 2000 never deceission! Kids are great when they arent yours spoil them then send them back with their parents! Due to this year being so stressful i have some new years resolutions already thought out so here they all are:
1. Keep up with working out and eating right no matter what
2. Quit commiting to so many things it is ok to say NO
3. Patience learn some buy some get some somehow!
4. Keep the house clean at all times!
5. Get up earlier so im not having to rush
6. Make a chore list with chores split up between tim and i (neither of us have super powers!)
7. Spend time at least once a month with the girls
8. Read more
9. Bitch less(tim will love this one lol)
10. Walk the dogs daily
11. Save money!
Ok thats all i can think of right now, i think its more than enough! Well goodbye 2008 and hello 2009! I wonder whats in store for this year?!?!?

My husband really loves me!

Well i didnt get the second job at shady oak bbq they called the saturday after my interview wanting me to start the following monday i said no i couldnt i can only work weekends they guy said well let me talk to bobby and ill call ya back and i never heard back from them...oh well i have a budget written out not to quit robbing peter to pay paul so i can stick to it! Tim went to the dr yesterday he was supposed to get the ok to start walking on his foot instead he got a it will be another month! Are you kidding me?!?!? We have 20 people give or take coming our house for Thanksgiving lunch and it looks like hurricane katrina has ripped through that place...well I got home yesterday and Tim had vaccumed, cleaned the carpets and started on other stuff...man i love him sooo much! I was supposed to do it all this weekened but i was sick and in bed and am still sick but he helped a great deal and did it all on one leg and crutches no he has no excuses now for not helping lol! Today i will clean my bathroom, the air hockey table, the end table, kitchen counters, and trim the hedges tomorrow we will get off work early and i will go to my gmas for chairs for outside...my neighbor/friend Karen is letting me borrow her tray tables and kitchen chairs for inside then Saturday she will borrow all of mine for her familys Thanksgiving worked out quiet nice! I will start my cooking tomorrow(actually stared it sunday with the bread and cornbread for the dressing) and mom will be over early thursday to do her cooking and get everything set up...Friday is of course Black Friday big sales! I will be at kohls with my best friend jennifer at 4am...yes we are crazy! then off to our other favorite sales spots walmart..target...bass pro...and walgreens...then i will go home to start putting up christmas decorations :) I cant wait! So far only one house has lights up on our street and we will beat them for sure they got the multi colored led lights and they are UGLY! We wanted to change our mulit we use to outline the drive, put on hedges and trees to green but it would be over $100 so i think we are just gonna wait til next year when hopefully our finances are waaaaay better! Well thats all i have for now! Hope everyone has a safe and Happy Thanksgiving :)

A good end to an awful week!

Well i dont really have to much to blog about but heres what i got...this week seemed like the week from HELL....i had no money im talking negative amounts here and it was looking like we might not get paid at work due to no funds...needless to say i was not sleeping, i couldnt eat all i could do was cry and it was putting a lot of strain on tim and i and making us fight because of the stress...i HATE fighting it reminds me to much of our rough times and i never wanna go down that road again...well yesterdeay after work i went to Shady Oak BBQ and applied for a weekend job waiting tables...pretty sure i got the job and start next weekend...extra money will help a lot and relive a lot of stress although working all weekend will add some im gonna keep posotive about it and just look at the good of it...it will get all our xmas bought...i can get my cavity fixed...then the rest will ALL be going into savings so we can go on vacation next year...tim doesnt want me to work 2 jobs but i just have to i hate the stress of money so it will only help us...he says he will help me out around the house as much as he can...once his foot heals he will be able to help a lot more....oh last night he brought me home candy and said he was taking me to dinner tonight at mac grill or olive garden :)...No we dont need to spend the money but we need a date night before i start this second job and dont have any time for it...nothing new with his foot right now still hurts still swelling...oh i know what else is new Thanksgiving lunch with my family will be held at my house this year! I am of course not doing all the cooking mom and i are gonna split it up...im excited to have a house i can offer for this and it will get me motivated to clean all the things ive been putting off for soooo long...like the guest rooms! and im working on getting my yard looking super duper good! Well thats all ive got for now!

One year ago...

One year ago today Tim and I were offically engaged! And today here we are married happy and more in love than ever! Halloween is our favorite holiday! Last weekend we went to a costume party at our neighbors and tonight we are having our neighbors over for snacks and are gonna sit out front sipping on wine and handing out candy to the trick-or-treaters. We will have Ghost hunters live recording on our DVR so we can watch it after everyone goes home and i have also rented us scary movies...the ruins and boogyman 2....

July 2007 I started a new lifestlye of working out reguarly and eating healthier...well it all kinda started to slack a few months ago and i just cant seem to get back into the groove of things! Ive tried doing lunch work outs which work out fine as long as i can get out for lunch which i cant always do...i hate going after work cause i cant go very long since tim works 10 hour days now i have to get home to let the dogs out and feed them...Monday Nov 1st i will do whatever it takes to get back on track! i worked to hard for to long to just give it all up! I was just starting to like me and my body i almost had a flat tummy now im further away :( But i know i can do this!!

Tims Foot: Went to the Dr this past Wendsday and they have decided not to do a hard cast at all still no pressure allowed on the foot...his heel looks gross still but its no longer a blister and the skin is starting to peel off which is good...hopefully he will be heeled soon and be good as new im going crazy! i cant do it all im NOT superwomen even though i like to think so most days by doing as much as i can til its time to hit the pillow...speaking of:

Sleep: I have not been sleeping well at all lately! I guess i just think way to much! Ive tried taking sleep aide and or benadryl and i still cant sleep through the night...its very aggrivating! Im sure its just cause i have to much on my plate as usual!

Tims Surgery

Well Tim has had his surgery(Sept 26 2008)...the surgery went really good the Dr said it was good that he came now the damage inside was bad and he was getting to much movement in the joint so they scrapped out all the bloody cartlidge and put a screw in through the bottom of his heel...went back after a week for bandage change and things are looking good...might get the stiches out monday oct 13 and then a cast put on which he will be in for 8 weeks...on top of all this last sunday he had a stomach virus...ive never seen a one legged person hop to the bathroom so fast...today i got flowers at work from Tim the card read thank you for taking care of me love tim...he has never sent me flowers sure hes brought them home on my bday or valentines but never had them deleivered so it made me cry it was the sweetest thing ever!...hes bored to death at home and tells me how much he misses me when i get home and keeps asking me to stay with him...once someone gets back in the office at work i might have to play hookie one day...

Tim's Surgery is tomorrow

Tim is having surgery on his ankle tomorrow...they are going to fuse 2 bones together...i hope this helps with all of his pain...im kinda nervous about his surgery not sure why though...he is nervous becuase he has never been put under before but i told him he will be ...ok...and it will...his healing process will be 12 weeks not sure who will go crazy first me or him?!?!?! Hes being a good little husband though and helping me get everything done i cant do bymyself like bathing the dogs and dragging down halloween decorations from the attic...we have been married for 4months this month crazy!..we dont really do much were kinda old and boring most of tims time is spent at the dirt bike track and lately ive been helping my best friend with her wedding...ill be glad when its over its almost as stressful as my own was lol...i clean daily now it seems and cook i know crazy if youve known me for a while! I love watching the food network to get new ideas and recipies! Well we dont really have anything else going on right now so thats it for now!

My first Blog

Well this is my first blog other than on Myspace...Lets see where do i begin...Well Tim and i got married, finally, May 17, 2008...we are more in love than ever! We are living in Rhome for now but really want a house on the lake! That will have to come at a later time as i would like for most everything to be paid off before we buy another house! We do not have kids and at this time dont think we want any ever we have 2 dogs we call them our 4 legged kids and if you know us you know they really are our kids and spoiled rotten! Tim is going to have surgery on his ankle September 26th they are fusing 2 bones together and scrapping a joint the total healing time is going to be 12 weeks, all i have to say is the yard better not be mowed during this time i did enough of that already this year! Well thats all ive got for now!